You are very important to the women who you had a child with- doesn´t matter if the child is still alive or not.
You are very important to the children you are the father of- doesn´t matter if you belive it or not, if you are there for them or not.
You are very important to take the responisbility – you had fun… now you need to face the consequences- a woman, a child is real- not a virtual toy…
So please- have the courage and face them- the most important people in your life!
May God help you with it!